HEIDELBERG,
Germany, Aug. 2010 – While
saying Army Spc. Ekaterina
Volsky's childhood was
difficult is accurate, it
doesn't even begin to
describe the poverty, abuse
and neglect she has overcome
in her short lifetime.
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Army Spc.
Ekaterina
Volsky has
overcome
several
obstacles in
her 23 years
few would
ever
imagine. She
says her
difficult
childhood
has
motivated
her to use
her talents
and time to
serve others
and to share
her story of
hope. U.S.
Army photo
by Dijon
Rolle
(Click photo
for
screen-resolution
image);high-resolution
image
available.
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The U.S. Army Europe human
resources specialist was
born near the Ural Mountains
in Perm, Russia, 23 years
ago. Her birth mother
struggled with alcoholism
and bouts of mental illness,
and eventually committed
suicide.
At
age 2, Volsky was sent to an
overcrowded orphanage where,
she said, she was raised
primarily by the other
residents living there -
some only a few years older
than she was. And she was
abused during her time at
the orphanage, she added.
Over
the next seven years of her
life in Russia, Volsky
poured her pain and her
passion into the performing
arts to escape the hell she
faced on a daily basis.
"I
grew up just learning how to
be focused on music and art.
That's how I learned to
survive," she said.
"I would study singing,
poetry and history to try to
be as normal as
possible."
At age 9, Volksy met Joyce
Sterkel, an American woman
who later would become her
adoptive mother.
As
a nurse, Sterkel spent time
working with humanitarian
organizations in Russia and
later founded "Ranch
for Kids," a facility
in rural Montana
specializing in helping
children suffering from
fetal alcohol syndrome,
mental illness, abuse and
reactive attachment
disorder.
A
moratorium on Russian
adoptions prevented Sterkel
from adopting Volsky at the
time.
"I
really had no contact with
her during that year, but
she left some gifts, and
that was helpful … when it
was time to be adopted and I
came to America. It was
quite a shock for me,"
Volsky said.
The
family moved to Wyoming
before setting up shop in
Eureka, Mont., the future
home of “Ranch for
Kids.”
As
she tried to adjust to her
new life in the United
States, Volsky learned
English by watching American
television and movies and
engaging in conversations
with her new friends and
family. She also picked up
her U.S. citizenship,
attended Utah State
University, worked as an
Americorps volunteer and
nurse's aide, and helped out
around the ranch.
Volsky
and Sterkel returned to the
orphanage in 2000 for a
visit and to find out more
about Volsky's biological
family, including the
whereabouts of her
biological brother. She was
told he worked in a factory
in Siberia, but the two were
not able to connect during
her visit.
"It
was very heartbreaking and
shocking. I couldn't stop
crying," Volsky said.
"I wanted to bring
everyone with me to America
because it was so sad to see
children that cannot go
anywhere. They do not have
families, and that's pretty
sad to me, because they have
to be stuck here."
In
2008, Volsky, with her
family’s blessing, decided
to take on a new challenge -
this time as a soldier in
the U.S. Army. Heidelberg is
her first duty station.
"I
feel very proud and very
appreciative, because I can
live and serve in a normal
country where I do not have
to be violated or
abused," Volsky said.
"The
United States Army is not
something that you have to
do; we are volunteers here
to serve, and that is the
greatest opportunity, I
think, without looking at
the benefits," she
added. "But just
looking at trying to get out
and do something different.
I feel very proud."
Volsky
does admit there have been
some challenges.
"Being
in the Army as a soldier
from where I come from it is
hard, because I have to
learn to adapt in a
different way from how I
used to be, and I think most
people have that," she
said. "A lot of
soldiers who have family
members in the military can
kind of grasp what it's
like, because they've been
around military people, but
for me I have to take an
extra step, ask questions,
and find my way. "[I
have to] learn much more to
get to where I want to
be."
Volsky's
supervisor, Army Sgt. Amanda
Jordan, said she's
definitely on the right
track.
"She
is highly motivated. She
does things with little to
no guidance, and she's a
person that I would go to as
my right-hand man,"
Jordan said.
"It's
pretty amazing she is where
she is now,” she
continued, “knowing where
she came from and that she's
had such a hard life. I just
think that she is such a
great person. She's one
person that you can learn
from, … and now to be so
happy and to be where she is
now, she's also a person to
look up to."
In
her free time, Volsky enjoys
singing, dancing, drawing,
playing the piano, and
performing community
service, which she often
does as a member of
Heidelberg's Better
Opportunities for Single
Soldiers program.
"Specialist
Volsky is a person that you
can truly see has a servant
heart and tries very hard to
ensure others are taken care
of," said BOSS
president Army Spc. William
Perkins. "She sets the
example for others."
Another
passion Volsky has is
acting, and she had the
opportunity to hone her
chops with a part in a
commercial for USAREUR's
diversity campaign that
aired on American Forces
Network. Most viewers will
recognize her from her
memorable delivery of the
line "I am USAREUR."
Volsky
admitted she was a little
surprised by the attention
she has received after the
commercial began airing.
"At
first I wasn't used to it,
and it was a little much for
me, but then I went on
autopilot and so it doesn't
bother me at all. Sometimes
I even laugh. It's good that
people recognize it,"
she said.
Despite
the struggles she's overcome
and the many different
activities and hobbies that
now consume her schedule,
Volsky said there is one
thing that remains a
constant quest in her life.
"I
really enjoy community
service, and I really enjoy
meeting people and
communicating,” she said.
“I've found when I help
other people, I am helping
myself. I know that I'm
going to make a difference,
and when I can make people
smile, that's one thing that
I appreciate about the
talents and the gifts that I
have. I am able to share
them and to give something
in return."
These
days, Volsky continues to
weather the stormy seas of
life while helping to raise
others up to stand on the
mountains she was able to
conquer years ago in a
Russian orphanage.
"There's
always a bright side to a
challenge. That's one of the
things my mom has always
said. Without the bad, there
could be no good,"
Volsky said. "We are
just human beings, and we
have to strive forward no
matter what, and that's why
I'm here."
In
October, Volsky will head to
Washington, D.C., to compete
in the U.S. Army 10-Miler.
She was one of four runners
from Heidelberg to earn a
spot on the U.S. Army Europe
10-miler team last month in
a qualification race in
Grafenwöhr.